A week before SG50

2 Aug

Bb has to work over the weekend.. Friday, Saturday and Sunday. N because he had to wake up early, so I told him don’t stay over.

But he will always find time to have dinner with me! So we went to geylang to have our porridge.

Really enjoyed every moment spent with him.. we just have endless things to talk about.

Sigh, another day without him.. I looked forward to tomorrow night…

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The Art of Staying Together Happily

10 Jul

recently there are so many things were running through my mind. you know lah, must be coming to the emo time of the month (haha! obviously like who doesnt know that i stop my menses since 17?!)

but anyway, long story short, IM GETTING MARRIED! & the mentally exhausting part, the preparations. of coz, im lucky lah~ coz is iggy we are talking about here! he does EVERYTHING FOR ME! all i need to do is to show my face that day!

seriously, i love him to the max man! obviously lah, if not i wouldnt have accept his proposal right?! talking about that, need to get both the proposal youtube up for editing!

i have NOT gotten my guest list. damn sian to even list down. im screwed lah.

someone was asking what’s real love?

everyone just have their own definitions by how it was being passed down by their parents or how they see it & compare themselves with other’s relationship. whether you believe it exist anot, is up to individual.

is like, you dun have to see God to know there is just something out there? thats y there are either the free thinkers or the pious religious people.

most people used to tell me, as long as the guy is decent, nice, steady got job, is ok. to be honest, IT ISNT! god knows how sad & emo i used to be with all my the other ex’s? & is just surprising that when you are out of that sticky situation, you tend to see clearer that other people are more or less facing the same. but of coz, who are you to judge?

i once read an article (mind u, is proven), if the couple start to talk and complain about each other, most prob the marriage will lead to a separation. factoring out all the justifications of “ok lah, despite of all these, he is still a nice guy.” to be honest lah, i have hear girls who tell me their “two timer” bfs are nice. “my extremely lazy bf” but ok lah, other than that, he is nice. he is abusive only when he drinks, but he is an angel(nice) when he isnt drinking. like come on lah, nice is too general.

to think i was in that stage before, giving like 101 reason y i should just hang on even though i was unhappy. such an idiot i am.

this “friend”, is getting married to someone who she didnt like. criticise him like nobody’s business, complain & complain. but she has the reason to do so, she is capable than him. cry & cry, and later on tell me ok lah, other than that he is “nice”

when a girl cries too much in a relationship becoz of the guy, it just means you guys aint compatible. (honestly, brutally true) the only time when the girl stops crying, is when the relationship is coming to an end, and she has moved on.

till date, the tears iggy gave, was all happy things. in the past, i wouldnt have believed there is such a relationship. but seriously, iggy is the only guy who proved me all wrong in many aspects. we never once had a serious fight or arguing? at least i dont remember?

i finally found out the differences why people say wat they say about, “when u finally have a fight, is the end of the relationship”.  when they say couples fight, i have always take it as ferocious quarrelling. & when iggy & i so-called “fight”, is more like we talk about our differences in expectations.

im happy with iggy. is a kind of heartfelt happiness around people who are around us feel. is never abt proving who’s right, but weighing wat exactly is much impt in the whole purpose of the argument. he always make time for me, other than his career, im very much his next priority. i love being valued, being very loved by him, being pampered, not out of habit, but becoz he really love you so much not to ever let you get upset with him.

many often,  the day you find someone who do that for you, don’t ever let them go cause they’re keepers.

I LOVE SMU

21 Jan

is been quite some time since i last blog.

I got a job! (like finally), pau gotten married, iggy got promoted but changing job~

well, i went for an interview at SMU on the 14 sept, n im in the big family now! is been 3months plus coming 4months.

everything is really great here! other than the scoldings i constantly get myself into, the rest are GREAT! benefits are fantastic! cant ask for more! i am the youngest in my dept, tons of love from my colleagues.

even before i was confirmed, everyone just asked me to use up my $300 travel allowance that the company gives before the year ends. i am also given $200 computer allowance! =)

i love my “just nice” hectic n busy work life, even more on the whole working environment! our pantry, consists of one pool table, one soccer table, one really huge nice sitting area (with very nice colourful sofa) huge tv, n two KTV and gaming (wii/PS3) room. seriously, HOW NICE IS THAT?! not forgeting about the free flow of hot chocolate n coco drinks (latte, mocha, etc)

another thing that i am happy with is the work-life balance. we get one hour time off every week to do exercise. but honestly, i never utilise it. haha! gym is free of coz! SQ air ticket is 20% off =)

n the party! we just had SMU’s 11th party! free pizza, donuts, beers, cotton candy, popcorn, milo, fishballs n alot of food lah~ we just went crazy~ haha!

in short, i will be here for a LONG LONG TIME (if nothing happens).

Iggy will soon be flying to beijing for business, shit part, the tickets are WAY TOO EX becoz of CNY. =(

so since we will be flying in march with my whole entire family, i will just settle for that. =|

things are good. hope that it will be way better soon.

BB working hard for our future milk powder

12 Sep

is a long weekend… but doesnt matter to bb, coz while other bfs are spending time n enjoying their long weekend with their gfs, bb is forever working~~~

im not complaining.. i just felt the heartache, n i miss him. he is the only bf i had who said with real actions. he wants me to have a terrific life, n he worked hard for it.

like, WHOSE BF WORKED 7DAYS ?! as in really 7days?! yet, he still sets time aside for me =) LOVE HIM TO THE MAX!!!

we talked about housing, the kind of my proposal ring i want, we cant wait to have our own kids, cant wait to be parents, we are just extremely excited with the everything that is lining up for us.

so, if you are at the food fair at expo EVERYDAY over this weekend, yes, my handsome is there. will upload some of the cute photos we took over at pau’s chalet! is DAMN FUNNY LAH!!! esp that mona “iggy”

After a long halt

10 Sep

went for the second round interview, ultimately, i think like wat bb had said, law of attraction doesnt work for me, is the law of repulsion that comes to me! HAHA!

i hate salesman. guess wat?! my ex ex ex is a salesman, my previous ex is also a salesman, my mum as a business woman, is a salesman herself too, my bf is a saleman, n now, I AM MY BIGGEST SALEWOMAN! OMG…..

but guess wat, if i get the job, my pay is definitely more than my peers! HA!

anyway, congrats to my BB, u are getting PROMOTED! i love u! (not becoz u are promoted lah~)

seeing paupau getting married, makes me extremely excited n happy for her… i just cant wait..

tml, bbq with paupau they all!! hahah!

Softwares

25 Aug

I guess this must b the worst interview for me.

Ever had you study for science paper and it came out a maths paper? Or u study really hard on a particular chapter n it came out very harder?? U still recalled that feeling of anxiety?!

Yes! That was it!

I was asked to design a mailer using dreamweaver. I sat in the computer, looking at wat was once familiar with me n didn’t know how to do.. So I asked what position am I applying for, she said, oh nvm, I can open Photoshop if u dunno how to use dreamweaver.

Again, I fell into the “once I used to get full marks over it, n now, is looking so alien.”

Panicked, I just heck care n open Microsoft paint. Thank goodness someone invent such layman application on earth!! So all I did was printscreen throughout. N if I didn’t love the font, I just used Microsoft words n I just paste n printscreen throughout!

Goodness! I think I’m genius man!!!

Growth

17 Aug

seriously, i would totally enjoy my lifestyle now….  if only i am a tai tai.. haha!

been going for a couple of interviews, rejected 3. shit. n to be honest, though i kept thinking about it, i even asked Iggy if he thinks i have regretted it, but he asked me, if they called u again saying that you got that offer, would u still take it? n i just said NO without hestitating..

so yap. like wat he said, perhaps that was the closest offer i got, i felt “so close, yet damn F far.” (ok, i added the F. he isnt as vulgar as i am! ha) tomorrow, another interview.. cant wait…

oh ya, was browsing n looking at Marina Bay Sands hotel, I AM JUST SO JEALOUS. not the swimming, but the stunning view!

bb was so sweet today! i mean, he is sweet to me everyday, but he wasnt just sweet, but extra extra sweet. honestly, i used to look down on girls who are boy crazy, (ok, i still do, unless he is ur bf~) anyway, take it that i am boyfriend crazy, but seriously, if are in my shoes, i bet u will be the same too!

i had an interview this afternoon, and he just came to pick me up! not only that, he waited for me till i finished, n when i told him i had blisters on my feet, he immediately asked me to stay put, n went to get pumps for me to change! n he did all these without me saying! is very sweet n touching. not only that i am happy that he is my bf, i am also glad that our passions for one another are still the same even after 2years =) well, at least it didnt fade, but instead it grew! =)

how can you NOT love him more?!