I know, i know

12 Jun

is like the 90275263491749027598470174 times another friend of mine is asking me when is my red bomb. to be honest, Iggy and I are both equally excited, but i am still hoping for the 111111 date.

come to think about it, i didnt partor with Iggy for very long, and to shock you guys more, we more or less got “engaged” after about 6months together. (yes, thats how the 1 carat ring came about.)

last time when girls tell me that you will know he is the one becoz YOU WILL JUST KNOW IT?? i think they are all idiots. who knows, i am slapping my mouth now! haha! i am never more than sure that i want to settle down. you really WILL KNOW!! after all, is been a TERRIFIC 1.5years. i am extremely HAPPY. happiness just escalate all the way to my family, my surroundings, just everything! this is definitely wat i want.

i mean, WHO CANT SEE THAT I AM SO MUCH HAPPIER NOW?

you know, i used to think being such a feminist, i tot i enjoyed wearing the pants in all my relationships, i know so many of my girlfriends who are actually wearing the pants rather than the skirts, infact, MOST of the girls i know are. girls now are as smart and intelligent, we earned just as much, and we voiced out as loud too. until i got to know Iggy, i realised that i really do love the idea of wearing the skirt.

i love the feeling of a guy taking control of all situations, being decisive, got a mind of his own, ambitious, you know how some guys are just not so attentive and initiative? and you just cant let go and let them handle some things? Iggy is the only one that i know i can TOTALLY RELAX because is him. infact, you will even doubt that you cant do a better job, and you will rather him to do it for you. most important, he remembers what i say, he puts me as his priority, he makes me feel very loved, he is very respectful.

he is very nurturing. he taught me many many things, he open my view points, he expose me with many things i never knew, and he told me something recently that i am surprised to learnt about this, he heard somewhere, where couples by right should NOT compromise to the extend that you have totally changed for the other half UNKNOWINGLY, because when one dun want to fight, you give in, is only when there is no more arguments and quarrels, thats when the sparks have went off. it is because of the differences you both had at first, that made the two come together. he told me giving in to him is not a virtue. so to be honest, we both do fight a lot… very constructively. =)

honestly, after hearing that, how many of you are in a damn long relationship, not even sure if you still love him, or you are just too used to him? and you cant even be bothered to fight? im guilty.

so anyway, if you are going to ask when am i going to get married again, i will just tell you i just gave birth last month. HA!

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