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The Art of Staying Together Happily

10 Jul

recently there are so many things were running through my mind. you know lah, must be coming to the emo time of the month (haha! obviously like who doesnt know that i stop my menses since 17?!)

but anyway, long story short, IM GETTING MARRIED! & the mentally exhausting part, the preparations. of coz, im lucky lah~ coz is iggy we are talking about here! he does EVERYTHING FOR ME! all i need to do is to show my face that day!

seriously, i love him to the max man! obviously lah, if not i wouldnt have accept his proposal right?! talking about that, need to get both the proposal youtube up for editing!

i have NOT gotten my guest list. damn sian to even list down. im screwed lah.

someone was asking what’s real love?

everyone just have their own definitions by how it was being passed down by their parents or how they see it & compare themselves with other’s relationship. whether you believe it exist anot, is up to individual.

is like, you dun have to see God to know there is just something out there? thats y there are either the free thinkers or the pious religious people.

most people used to tell me, as long as the guy is decent, nice, steady got job, is ok. to be honest, IT ISNT! god knows how sad & emo i used to be with all my the other ex’s? & is just surprising that when you are out of that sticky situation, you tend to see clearer that other people are more or less facing the same. but of coz, who are you to judge?

i once read an article (mind u, is proven), if the couple start to talk and complain about each other, most prob the marriage will lead to a separation. factoring out all the justifications of “ok lah, despite of all these, he is still a nice guy.” to be honest lah, i have hear girls who tell me their “two timer” bfs are nice. “my extremely lazy bf” but ok lah, other than that, he is nice. he is abusive only when he drinks, but he is an angel(nice) when he isnt drinking. like come on lah, nice is too general.

to think i was in that stage before, giving like 101 reason y i should just hang on even though i was unhappy. such an idiot i am.

this “friend”, is getting married to someone who she didnt like. criticise him like nobody’s business, complain & complain. but she has the reason to do so, she is capable than him. cry & cry, and later on tell me ok lah, other than that he is “nice”

when a girl cries too much in a relationship becoz of the guy, it just means you guys aint compatible. (honestly, brutally true) the only time when the girl stops crying, is when the relationship is coming to an end, and she has moved on.

till date, the tears iggy gave, was all happy things. in the past, i wouldnt have believed there is such a relationship. but seriously, iggy is the only guy who proved me all wrong in many aspects. we never once had a serious fight or arguing? at least i dont remember?

i finally found out the differences why people say wat they say about, “when u finally have a fight, is the end of the relationship”.  when they say couples fight, i have always take it as ferocious quarrelling. & when iggy & i so-called “fight”, is more like we talk about our differences in expectations.

im happy with iggy. is a kind of heartfelt happiness around people who are around us feel. is never abt proving who’s right, but weighing wat exactly is much impt in the whole purpose of the argument. he always make time for me, other than his career, im very much his next priority. i love being valued, being very loved by him, being pampered, not out of habit, but becoz he really love you so much not to ever let you get upset with him.

many often,  the day you find someone who do that for you, don’t ever let them go cause they’re keepers.